Beyond Believing: Helping Christian Women Heal Post Divorce

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After my divorce, I kept reaching for love. In relationships. In achievement. In how hard I worked and how much I gave.
What God showed me is that what I was reaching for was not love — it was a version of love that looked and felt like the real thing but could never actually do what love is supposed to do.
In this episode I walk through what love actually is, where it actually comes from, and why the source changes every single thing downstream. Not as theology. As the lived experience of a divorced woman who finally stopped looking in the wrong places.
This episode is for every woman who has loved hard, given everything, and still woken up feeling empty.
Scripture Anchor: Ephesians 5 · 1 John 4 · John 16:32
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Chapter Markers
0:00 — Loneliness is not a lack of love in your life
0:38 — Welcome
1:15 — The coffee shop. The matcha. The couple on a first date.
3:00 — The Chaser · The Cutoff · I have been both of those women
5:00 — What was different about this particular Friday evening
6:30 — Ephesians 5 — the model, then the counterfeit
8:30 — Do not be deceived by empty words
9:30 — 1 John 4 — God is love · No fear in love
11:30 — The unspoken rulebook — asking people to deliver what only God can give
12:30 — John 16:32 — I am not alone, for the Father is with me
14:00 — 1 John 4:19 — We love because He first loved us
15:00 — Stop chasing the counterfeit · Apply for coaching
 
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You can do everything right after your divorce — make better choices, grow in your faith, work on yourself, become genuinely different from who you were — and still find that the foundation underneath you is the same unstable ground it has always been.
 
That is not a healing problem. That is a root problem.
 
In this episode, I'm sharing a speech I gave to a room full of high-achieving women — and knew immediately that I had to bring it here. Because the woman I was speaking to in that room was you.
 
We go through three roots — identity, worth, and belief — and what it looks like when each one is planted in the wrong ground. Not in theory. In the specific, felt experience of a woman who is capable, driven, and still somehow feels like she is chasing a version of herself she cannot quite catch.
 
If you are tired of rebuilding and still not arriving — this is the episode that names why. And what changes when you finally plant yourself in the right ground.
 
Scripture anchor : Matthew 13 · Matthew 16:15 · Romans 8:31 · Psalm 139
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Chapter Markers
0:00 — The problem was never what you were building
0:38 — Welcome
1:15 — The speech: a room full of high-achieving women who are still chasing themselves
3:00 — Who do you actually believe you are?
4:30 — Personal story: growing up shaped by divorce · the identity she inherited
7:00 — Matthew 16:15 — identity must be spoken, declared, settled
8:30 — Matthew 13 — the Parable of the Sower · the ground determines everything
10:00 — Root One: Identity — shakeable vs. unshakeable
11:30 — Root Two: Worth — a wound driving a calendar
13:00 — Root Three: Belief — don't look at your prayers, look at your behavior
14:30 — Romans 8:31 · Psalm 139 — He spoke first
15:30 — That version of yourself was never ahead of you · Apply for coaching
 
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After my divorce I held everything together. And for a long time I thought that was God working through me. What He showed me is that some of it was — and some of it was me quietly refusing to need Him. I was self-sufficient in my own sufficiency. Not His.
In this episode I walk through the Amplified Classic translation of Philippians 4:13 that Derek Prince taught from, why most of us have been quoting this verse wrong, and what it looks like to finally stop generating a strength that was never meant to come from you.
If you are a divorced Christian woman who is tired of holding it all together alone — this episode gives you permission to exhale.
Scripture: Philippians 4:13 AMPC  ·  Proverbs 14:1  ·  Apply for coaching: coachkatieanne.com/call
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CHAPTER MARKERS
0:00 — Some of my strength was His. Some of it was me refusing to need Him.
0:38 — Welcome
1:15 — What the strength that looks like faith actually looks like
3:00 — The woman who is exhausted and the woman who is collapsing — same pattern
4:30 — Proverbs 14:1: her own hands
5:30 — The verse she has been quoting wrong
7:00 — Philippians 4:13 AMPC — Derek Prince translation
9:30 — Self-sufficient in Christ’s sufficiency, not my own
10:00 — What it looks like to put it down
13:30 — You are not weak because you are tired
15:00 — Apply for coaching
 
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After my divorce, I thought I was trusting God. What I didn’t see is that I was also handing my power to my ex every single day — delaying decisions, waiting on his cooperation, organizing my life around his next move. I didn’t choose that consciously. It was just running in the background.
 
In this episode I walk through the seven-word question God asked me that shut the autopilot off. And why 1 John 4:4 is not a motivational poster — it is a Tuesday-afternoon instruction for every decision you are making right now.
 
If you are a divorced Christian woman who is exhausted by a life still organized around someone who already left it — this episode is for you.
 
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CHAPTER MARKERS
0:00 — The autopilot I didn’t know was running
0:38 — Welcome
1:15 — What giving power away looks like for the Chaser
2:30 — What it looks like for the Cutoff
3:30 — The woman in eight years of litigation
6:00 — What she could not see — and what I recognized
6:30 — The seven-word question
9:00 — 1 John 4:4 — not motivation, instruction
11:30 — What taking your power back actually looks like
13:30 — You are not powerless
15:00 — Apply for coaching
 
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After my divorce, I was convinced I was ready for a godly relationship. I had done the work. The case for my own readiness was strong.
What I did not see is that I was building a case — not asking a question. And underneath all of that real, sincere preparation was a question I had never stopped to ask: God, is this the season You are calling me into? Or is this the season I have decided it is?
In this episode I walk through the story of Ruth with the cultural context most of us never learned — not to show you how to find your Boaz, but to show you what Ruth built before he ever looked up.
If you are a divorced Christian woman who is tired of watching the horizon — this episode is for you.
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CHAPTER MARKERS
0:00 — You might not be ready for the relationship you are praying for
0:38 — Welcome
1:20 — What I called ready
3:00 — I was building a case
4:30 — The woman who stopped wanting Boaz
6:00 — Surrendering vs. suppressing
6:30 — Ruth: who she was before the field
8:00 — What gleaning actually was
9:30 — Boaz arrived — and she didn’t know he existed
11:00 — Posture 1: full presence in the field she was in
12:00 — Posture 2: eyes on her assignment, not who might notice
13:00 — Posture 3: character that speaks before she does
14:00 — God brought Ruth to Boaz — not because she found him
14:30 — She was found
15:00 — Apply for coaching
 
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If you are exhausted by a pain that never seems to end — this episode is for you.
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After my divorce, I kept arriving at the same pain. Different person. Different hope. Same destination. I used to tell myself loneliness was the hardest part.
What God showed me is that nothing is more painful than giving yourself to someone who cannot recognize your worth. And more than that — I was the common denominator. That is the best news I ever received about my own life.
In this episode I walk through two women: the one who keeps reaching for relationships, and the one who has shut that door and turned toward her children instead. Both are running the same pattern. And both are asking people to carry what only God can hold.
Scripture: Psalm 143:6  ·  1 Corinthians 3:1-2  ·
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CHAPTER MARKERS
0:00 — Same pain, different people
0:38 — Welcome
1:20 — The pattern: what it looks like for the chaser
3:00 — The cutoff: what she is asking her children to carry
5:30 — The best news I ever received
6:30 — Psalm 143:6 — the parched land
8:00 — Augustine: our heart is restless
9:30 — 1 Corinthians: milk vs. meat
11:30 — Knowing vs. experiencing His presence
12:00 — Three questions to carry out today
13:30 — C.S. Lewis: the cottage and the palace
14:30 — You are not broken
16:00 — Apply for coaching
 
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After my divorce, I told my story the same way every time. What I lost. What was taken. What it cost me. I thought that was honesty.
What God showed me is that a story centered on what was done to you has no room for what He has done through it.
In this episode I walk through the Christus Victor theology, the etymology of the word victim, and Proverbs 23:7 to show you why the way you tell your story is producing who you are becoming — and how to tell the whole truth.
God doesn't need you to be the heroine. He needs you to be the witness.
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Chapter Markers 
0:00  —  I was leaving God out of my story
0:38  —  Welcome
1:15  —  The story I kept telling
3:00  —  Who is at the center?
5:30  —  The word victim — what it actually means
7:30  —  Christus Victor — He went as victor, not victim
9:00  —  Proverbs 23:7 — as she thinks, so she becomes
10:30  —  The whole truth
12:00  —  Three questions to carry
13:30  —  Oswald Chambers — who is the Source?
14:30  —  Not the heroine — the witness
15:00  —  Apply for coaching
 
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I thought the conflict in my life was coming from my ex. My church. The people who judged my divorce. I was wrong.
In this episode I walk through what Jesus was actually teaching in Matthew 7 — the beam and the speck — and show you why it is not just a humility lesson. It is a mechanism. And once you see it, you cannot unsee it in your own daily life.
If you are exhausted by a conflict that never seems to end — this episode is for you.
Scripture: Matthew 7:3-5 · Proverbs 23:7  · 
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0:00  —  I thought my ex was the problem
0:38  —  Welcome
1:15  —  The list I kept making
3:00  —  You have a list too
5:30  —  What Matthew 7 is actually teaching
7:30  —  The beam you cannot see
9:00  —  When you become what you are focused on
10:30  —  Your ex isn't the problem
12:00  —  What I learned fighting for my marriage
13:30  —  Mirror vs. window — John Piper
15:00  —  Apply for coaching
 
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Most women after divorce are fighting hard for love. Or fighting hard to avoid it. They're just fighting the wrong battle.
In this episode I walk through two biblical stories — the Benjaminites in Judges 20 and Sarai in Genesis 16 — that show two different versions of the same mistake.
Then I share a relationship I believed was God's promise fulfilled, what I was asking throughout it, and what the ending finally taught me about the one question that changes everything.
Whether you are the woman pursuing love or the woman who has closed that door — this episode is for you.Subscribe so you don't miss an episode.
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Chapter Markers 
0:00  —  Sarai: faith, promise, 25 years — and still got it wrong
0:38  —  Welcome — this episode is for both of you
1:20  —  The Benjaminites: how vs if
3:30  —  40,000 men lost — and why
5:00  —  The question that changed everything on day three
6:00  —  Sarai and the word 'perhaps'
7:30  —  'Is anything too hard for the Lord?'
9:00  —  Your version of 'perhaps'
9:30  —  The part I need you to hear
10:00  —  The relationship I thought was my Boaz
12:00  —  What I was asking the whole time
13:30  —  The wound that stays fresh
14:30  —  The questions that changed everything
15:00  —  You are not broken
16:00  —  Apply for coaching
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The loneliness after divorce is not the absence of the right people. It is the presence of God — and you don't recognize it yet because you have never been still enough to hear Him.
In this episode I walk through the complete story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19 — from the juniper tree to the cave to the still small voice — and show you why every beat of that story was written for the season you are in right now. And I share the six words God said to me in my living room the night I finally stopped filling the quiet.
God is not in the storm. He is in the whisper. And the whisper is carrying a map.
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Chapter Markers 
0:38  —  Welcome
1:15  —  What I filled the quiet with
3:30  —  The loneliness is not what you think
5:30  —  Elijah: after his greatest victory
7:00  —  The angel came twice — the preparation
8:30  —  Forty days in the strength of that food
9:30  —  The cave — where you are right now
11:00  —  'What are you doing here?'
12:00  —  The storms — and why God wasn't in them
13:00  —  The six words
15:00  —  The map God has for you
15:30  —  You are at the cave entrance
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